Channel: Aaron Doughty

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Description: Stop doing this and break the cycle! Listen to the most powerful meditation for healing your inner child here: ➡️ AaronDoughty.com/child Download my NEW and FREE guide on How To Raise Your Vibration Permanently here!: ➡️ AaronDoughty.com/pdf Get my top three most powerful meditations FOR FREE here: ➡️ AaronDoughty.com/FREE Listen to my Podcast on iTunes here: ➡️ aarondoughty.com/the-daily-vortex-podcast-itunes Listen to my Podcast on Spotify on: ➡️ aarondoughty.com/the-daily-vortex-podcast-spotify If narcissists are something that you find yourself attracting into your life, then it's very important to understand the reason because until you understand the reason you are attracting narcissists, what ends up happening is you keep attracting them into your life. You keep them in that energy dynamic, you find your self changing the faces but the energy remains the same. And in this video, I'm gonna show you how to finally break the cycle, show you why that actually is happening, and how this will absolutely transform your life. If there's one simple statement I could say that explains this dynamic, it is that of obviously the empath being attracted to, or attracting into their life, the narcissist. Now an empath is somebody that is very sensitive to other people's emotions, is someone that can feel what other people are thinking and feeling, and its somebody that in general, is considered a a highly sensitive person, normally. Then on the other side of that, we have a narcissist. The narcissist is somebody that lacks empathy, somebody that is normally using and manipulating other people to get their needs met. And what ends up happening, is we have two sides of this coin. Now I'm somebody that's had personal experience with this, because I've always felt like an empath growing up. My ex-stepmom growing up was a, and is still to this day, a hardcore narcissist. Growing up, it was something where my brother and I had no freedom, we had to sneak the other side of the house just to get enough food to eat, we had to earn going to school activities. And we grew up not allowed to have friends, not allowed to watch TV. We had a very interesting childhood, kind of like having an army sergeant as a parent, that was my ex-stepmom. And my dad was with her until I was 15 years old. Then what happened is, my dad broke up with her, we had all this freedom all of a sudden. And in a weird way, it felt kind of scary to have all that freedom. Now after 15, I did end up eventually getting a job at Nordstrom in women's shoes. And it was like every single, even though my ex-stepmom left my life, the narcissist, to be in their own frame. Empaths can learn how to be grounded and centered and leading in their life, able to set boundaries. What do narcissist need to learn? Narcissists need to learn that of empathy. Need to learn how to be more considerate to other people's thoughts, needs, and feelings. So, what you could see here is that narcissists and empaths attract each other because they actually have something to learn from each other. It is like peanut butter and jelly way, don't taste as good, but you know, the idea is, that this dynamic attracts each other because there's something to learn from the expression of each energy. And what the narcissist represses is empathy and compassion, and thought, thinking about others. And what the empath represses is that of being in their own frame, leading, being assertive. So, this was a game changer for me because I made the transition and the shift into being the empath, into being more balanced. Now, both of these by the way, are kind of the imbalanced ways of going about it, there's a happy medium in the middle, that is healthy. Narcissists are the extreme of the manipulation, and this side of the coin, and then empaths are the other side, is sometimes where a lot of empaths feel like they lose their sense of self. It's hard to set boundaries, they feel guilty, and it's almost like your emotions are my emotions. So if I disappoint you, I'm disappointing myself, because you are me. There's an identification. And by the way my shadow work coach explains it too, this'll also maybe transform the whole way of looking at this dynamic.