Channel: Antonio Borrello

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Description: How to Stop Feeling Insecure in Your Relationship and Increase Your Attraction Now! Are you a person who gets nervous when waiting for your partner to text you or call you? Do you feel uneasy or anxious when you’ve gone several hours without hearing from him, but once until you get a clear indication that he is there for you and the relationship is safe, you’re happy again? If that resonates with you, then this is the video for you. I’m going to explain why this happens and how to eliminate this anxiety from your relationship. A recently got a call from Jasmine who had been feeling upset and worried that her insecurity and neediness was going to destroy her new relationship. She had been dating a man named Michael for almost a month. And, Michael was charming, and handsome and successful. She said they had magical chemistry and they always had a great time when they were together, But in between their dates, she would start to feel anxious if she hadn’t heard from him in the morning or if he was silent for several hours. She said it was like she needed to get a refill of his attention or she would start to feel empty and lonely inside. Or, if he took longer than usual to respond, she would start worrying that something was wrong. Jasmine admitted that she desperately wanted to connect with Michael when she felt that way, but she wouldn’t allow herself to text or call him. That’s because In her last relationship, she would excessively call and text her boyfriend. She would even drive by his home and workplace to make sure he was there. It was these that led to the demise of her relationship, and she vowed to never act insecure or needy in a relationship again. Now instead, Jasmine would keep score and pay attention to how long it took him to respond to her texts and wait just as long to return his. She would make him pursue her, she would try to appear busy and sometimes tell him she had plans when she didn’t. Still, She realized that her behaviors did not represent her genuine feelings and she hated the fact that her mood, good or bad, was so dependent on feeling connected with Michael. This is the interesting part.. Last month, Jasmine didn’t know Michael existed. but today, his good morning text (or lack of text) had the power to completely change her mood. But Why? I guess that’s the million dollar question. Is it because she was in love with him after 3 weeks? Probably not. The likely reason is because jasmine has an anxious and insecure attachment style. She becomes attached very quickly, and michael activates her attachment system. To make matters worse, Michael has more of an avoidant attachment style and has difficulty talking about his feelings. He also is good at sending mixed signals. In fact, he was not even comfortable committing to a date too far in advanced. Does this story sound familiar to you? If so, keep watching because the anxiety and insecurity associated with this is not only unhealthy for you, it usually leads to your partner wanting to abandon you…  it’s like the thing you fear most is exactly what your behavior will bring about.  So, before you let that happen to you,  here are the warning signs to look out for. I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribin. And Join our conversation on social media. Facebook facebook.com/aborrello2 Instagram instagram.com/AskDrAntonio Twitter twitter.com/AskDrAntonio TikTok @askdrantonio Are you interested in dating advice for women or advice on relationship problems? If so, you have found the dating coach for you. This channel is all about love tips, relationships and love, relationship problems and signs he likes you. Essentially, this channel is focused on love advice and helping you understand what men want. I'm happy to answer subscriber dating and relationship questions anonymously. Email AntonioBorrello@icloud.com how to stop feeling insecure, how to stop feeling insecure in a relationship how to stop being insecure and jealous how to stop being needy how to stop being codependent, relationship anxiety, how to be less needy codependent relationship codependency anxiety in relationships fear of abandonment