Channel: Amy North

Category: Howto & Style

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Description: CoachNorth.com -- "Why Don't My Tinder Matches Ever Message Me?" So you’re bored on the couch, browsing tinder. But then he catches your eye. A guy who is hot, cool, and just what you’re looking for. No selfie in his underwear, no pictures of just a truck. So you take the plunge and swipe right. And guess what, you match! It’s a great feeling. But then… nothing. No message. It’s been an hour, then two, then three weeks and he hasn’t even given you a “hey”. So why did he swipe right and then not message you? And more importantly, what do you do about it? Hi, I’m Amy North. I’ve been studying love and relationships practically my whole life and while Tinder isn’t the only way to find a man, it’s definitely a great place to start. But there’s one problem. Matching without messaging is more common than you think. In fact, only 7% of male matches send a message compared to 21% of female matches. I’m going to give you the top reasons that a guy isn’t messaging you on Tinder. Some of these are to do with you and your profile and others are just about him. Number 1...You live too far apart Maybe you’ve both got your radiuses set to the max and so you just matched with someone 100 miles away. That can be a fun ego boost but plenty of guys aren’t looking to start up a relationship with someone who lives in a different city. Then there’s this scenario. You’re in an airport or on a long car ride, or home for the holidays and you’re swiping. Then the next day you’re back home and suddenly you have five new matches that are 2000 miles away. That’s why you don’t swipe and travel! Number 2...You’ve got a bad bio I’ve seen plenty of girls wondering why they never get a message and then they show me their bio. There’s one thing they almost always have in common: a list of don’ts, conditions and qualifications. I understand you’re saying “no smokers, no fuckbois, no hookups” to try to scare off the creeps. But guess what, those guys aren’t reading your bio, and the guy that you want, might be turned off by your negativity even if he doesn’t fall into any of these categories. Remember, this is the only sense of your personality this guy gets other than your photos. If your bio is all nos then he’s going to be saying no to you. Or maybe your bio is blank, full of spelling mistakes, or just boring. There are plenty of bio mistakes that I’ll cover in an upcoming video. Number 3...They don’t check the app Plenty of people have their notifications off and just don’t check tinder very often. I know plenty of people with 7000 unread emails and dozens of matches they’ve never even seen. Number 4...You’re pictures are widely different It makes sense to put your best photo up first, but make sure your photos are all close to the same level. If your third photo is of you mid-sneeze, take it out no matter how cool the background is. People are much more attracted to each other in person and even one bad photo on tinder can ruin the bunch Number 5...They’re off tinder but didn’t deactivate Tinder can be funny sometimes. Sometimes you match with someone you swiped right on like a month ago. This could be happening to them. So maybe they’re not using tinder anymore for whatever reason. *** More from Amy North: *** How to Get A Man: coachnorth.com LoveLearnings: lovelearnings.com Facebook: facebook.com/amynorthdating