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Description: How To Stop Loving Someone In Five Steps ----- CoachNorth.com ----- Don’t you wish you could flip a switch and stop loving someone? Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. But stick around and I’ll tell you what you need to do right now to get over him and get on with your life. Hi, I’m Amy North, author of the Devotion System and Text Chemistry. I offer simple dating advice to women that’s backed by research and science. If that sounds like something you could use, please hit subscribe right now. Let’s get into it. First, it doesn’t matter if you were in a relationship with this guy, only knew him as a friend, or barely knew him at all, if you love someone and they don’t love you back, it hurts. It can feel like your heart is being ripped out of your chest. You wish there was something you could do to make them change their mind, but at the end of the day, it’s often impossible. And that’s going to be our first step… Accept it You need to accept that whatever you had, or might have had, or never got a chance to have, is over. You must kill that little voice in your head that says “maybe, some day, if things are different” or “maybe he’ll come to his senses and come running back to me”. I’m not saying that there’s no chance that someday, you two could be together. The truth is, I don’t know your situation. Maybe you two are soulmates and he’ll realize that five years down the road. But what I’m saying is: if you want to move on, to stop loving this guy and start living for the future instead of the past, then you need to accept that it’s over, once and for all. Because it doesn’t matter if you hold out hope or not, that won’t affect the outcome one way or another. So try your best to make your peace and let him go. That being said, if you’re bound and determined to get your ex back then I know someone who can help: Brad Browning. Brad has been the number one ex back expert on Youtube for a long time now. His Ex Factor guide has helped tens of thousands of people find love again with their ex. Go to BreakupBrad.com right now to learn more and watch his free video presentation. I honestly feel that sometimes it takes trying to get your ex back, giving it one last try, to really accept that it’s over. So if you’re wondering whether or not you still have a shot, I’d recommend you check out his free video presentation over at BreakupBrad.com. Once you’ve done that, you’ll be ready to begin the process in earnest. Which brings us to step two…. Get some distance Unfortunately, you can’t just wish these feelings away. It takes time and distance to truly get over another person. This means that you need to get him out of your life. Stop talking to him, sleeping with him, and, whatever you do, don’t try to be friends with him. There are situations where this kind of complete separation is impossible. Maybe you have mutual friends, work together, or are forced to spend time with one another for whatever reason. If you’re in this situation then just focus on limiting your time together as much as you can. I’d also recommend that you put together a timeline for getting over this person. While it’s going to be different day to day, if you’re someone who thrives on structure, it can be helpful to have a rough outline of how much time you’ll allow yourself to wallow in sadness, how much time you want to stay single, and roughly when you want to get back into dating. For some people, having that blueprint of the process can be beneficial when you’re trying to stop loving someone. And speaking of that timeline, our third step is one that many people neglect when they’re trying to stop loving someone... Allow yourself a mourning period Many people struggle to get over an ex because they don’t let themselves really grieve the relationship. While making strides to move on is important, at a certain point, first you need to let yourself really feel the negative feelings associated with the breakup or they’ll come out in other ways down the line. #amynorth #dating #relationships *** More from Amy North: *** How to Get A Man: coachnorth.com LoveLearnings: lovelearnings.com Facebook: facebook.com/amynorthdating