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Description: KateSpring.com/Free --- How to Handle The Most Common Texting Scenarios With Women Hey YouTube! Kate Spring here, for those of you who don’t know me I’m a dating and relationship coast from the West Coast of Canada. I specialize in helping men become the most confident and empowered version of themselves. And In this video, I wanted to shed some light on how to deal with some of the most common texting scenarios that take place between men and women. I want to give you some guidelines so that when these scenarios arise, you have the tools to deal with them and come out on top. So here are 4 very common scenarios and 4 solutions. Before we get going, remember that if you have any questions to leave them in the comments section below and I’ll be sure to get back to you, personally, as soon as I can. Also, don’t forget to subscribe to my channel. By doing so, you allow me to continue to create free content for you weekly. So subscribe and also let me know what topics you want me to cover in the future. Alright let’s get started. Just a heads up that these scenarios aren’t in any particular order. First Scenario: When She Doesn’t Text You Back. The first scenario I want to cover is what to do when a girl doesn’t text you back. I understand that this can be extremely annoying, but there are so many reasons why a girl isn’t texting you back and it isn’t always that she’s not interested in you. Although, sometimes, that is the case, sometimes it is just as simple as this girl has had a long ass day and couldn’t be bothered to look at her phone. She could be really into you, but just not feel like texting. Whatever you do, do not keep texting her if she hasn’t responded to your first one. You want to avoid blowing up her phone. Sending her text after text after text will only creep her out. It’s counter-productive. Everyone texts differently and the etiquette is very varied. A good rule is no more than two unanswered texts. Then it is up to her to come to you. Aside from not wanting to appear desperate, this is also important because in order for a woman’s attraction and desire to grow for you, she too has to chase you. She has to want to be with you and put in the effort as well. It’s all part of her attraction journey that she needs to have in order to fall for you, so allow her the space to chase you as well. Trust me, it will help you out in the long run. If, after two unanswered texts, she still hasn’t responded to you, then file that one away in the swing and a miss pile. You’re worthy of people’s time so don’t degrade yourself by begging for someone’s attention who isn’t giving you the simplest thing, a response. You don’t have to delete her number completely, but you should put it aside for the time being and maybe you could revisit her at a later date. What to say when she doesn’t respond to your text: This might sound a bit weird, but you could just text her, “Ha-ha, ok, sounds good.” You want to make light of her ignoring you. You don’t want to get mad, angry or sad, but you want to draw her attention to the fact that she’s ignored you without showing all of your hurt emotions. I’m basically telling you to be a little passive aggressive here. Oftentimes, this attempt will work in that she will just explain that she was busy and even apologize, or you give her the chance to make a comeback. Either way, it’s harmless and lighthearted. And if all else fails, if she hasn’t responded to you in a few days then pick up the phone and call her. Travel back in time to when phoning someone was acceptable. Call her, and put her on the spot. Or leave a voicemail. People who talk on the phone, to me, are fearless. Millennials nowadays attribute a great deal of their anxiety to talking on the phone or the fear of talking on the phone. So be confident. Call her and go after what you want. If she doesn’t answer or return the phone call or even a text then you know where you stand and you should just move on. Scenario 2: When She Isn’t Giving You Anything to Work With. Have you ever been in a texting conversation that sounds like this? You: “Hey, Hilary! Get into any trouble this weekend?” Her: “Unfortunately, no. Wbu?” You: “Oh, you know, the usual bank robbery followed by a pretty major diamond heist followed by a family dinner and drinks with friends.” Her: “Nice!” You: “What does your week look like?” Her: “Just work.” Now, this isn’t a bad conversation, but, as you can see, your girl Hilary isn’t really giving you much to work with in terms of conversation. Find more at: KateSpring.com/Free