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Description: KateSpring.com/Free --- How To Get A Girlfriend What’s going on YouTube?! Today I am going to give you a long awaited video on how to get a girlfriend. You can rejoice! It’s time, Grasshopper, time to put everything you’ve learned from my previous videos to the test and get that girl you’ve been pining after to be your girlfriend, if you haven’t already done so. So, before we get started, don’t forget that you can reach me by leaving questions in the comments section below, and I’ll get back to you, personally, as soon as I can. Also, for my next video, would you like to see one on how to get women to chase you, or how to tell when a woman wants to be approached? Take the poll! Step #1: Be Open. My first step to getting a girlfriend is to have an open mind! Get rid of any nit-picky check list about the type of girl you want to date. Or reasons why things will never work out. Have standards for yourself, of course, but don’t limit yourself to one type of woman. Sometimes relationships can come out of the most random interactions, if you’re open to it. When I was single, I had a very specific idea of the type of guy I wanted to date, but the best laid plans often go awry, so I ended up with someone I didn’t picture for myself. But it actually turned out for the best! In being open to who you meet that also means you don’t have to date your personality twin. There are tons of research to defend both points that opposites attract and that we need to find someone with similar interests. Either one works depending on what you’re open to. Yes, having the same interests is great! But also being into different things expands your horizons, takes you out of your comfort zone, and maybe introduces you to something that you really enjoy! Remember that saying that goes, “people won’t remember what you said, but they will remember how you made them feel.” And you never know who will make you will feel suddenly alive, important and special. Step #2: One of the factors that contributes to getting a girlfriend is to take her on real dates. Don’t just Netflix and chill, that’s a booty call and not a date. Put some effort and creativity into your dates. Take her out for an activity and not just going out to get drunk with your buddies. You could take her out for a walk in the park, or to brunch, or for a picnic. Picnics are a lost art of dating! I’d say the movies are a bad place to get to know someone. Sitting in a dark room in silence isn’t really an invitation for conversation or to get to know someone. But doing activities takes some of the attention off of both of you and the stress of keeping up conversation. I think going beer tasting or wine tasting is a hell of a good idea to get you out to try new things and also you usually have some sort of guide taking you around. If you aren’t near places like that, take her kayaking or to a petting zoo. Do something that you are both interested in or have never tried before. Trying new things, even if it totally bombs, at least you could get a funny story about it. This is a good way to connect with someone; laugh and create memories, even if the experience wasn’t perfect. But hopefully you can laugh at it. Make the date exciting and don’t be afraid to switch up what you do. Throw in a romantic dinner here and there. But be proactive about taking her on dates and not just hook-up dates late at night. Step #4: The next step is to be an active listener. Actually listen to your crush and to people in which you’re interested. It’s a step up for you if you can remember the important things she tells you. Remember names; don’t be one of those d-bags that never remembers her best friend’s name or her sister’s or brother’s, unless she’s got like 12 siblings, then I think you’re allowed to forget a couple. Women just want to feel like what they say matters and interests you. The point of being in a relationship is to have a friend and to share life’s adventures. And when you listen, really listen, then sharing happens and, in the process, a bond is formed. Step #5: The next step in wooing a girlfriend into monogamy is to instigate some body contact. Touching is an essential part in building attraction and simulating tension. And on the plus side, it’s exciting. Make a point that every time that you greet your girl you hug her and when you say goodbye. Set this as the precedent from the get go. Humans all have a desire to connect through physical contact. Another way to touch is to put your arms around her when you’re walking, or just sitting. Don’t be afraid to get close. Touch her arm when she laughs. Pavlov’s theory of classical conditioning suggests that humans can be conditioned to respond in certain ways to different cues. More at: KateSpring.com/Free