Channel: Kate Spring

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Description: ----------------------Go to: KateSpring.com/FREE ------------------------ --------------------Go Watch My Free Full Video Presentation!----------------------- Hey there! Welcome back to my channel to my subscribers! And welcome to first time viewers. My name is Kate Spring and I’m a dating and relationship coach from the West Coast of Canada. And I was very inspired by last night’s events in my life to create this video for you. 1. get over yourself: A lot of the time, we’re always trying to paint ourselves in this perfect light. Whether that is professionally, or personally, we’re always trying to be our best and perform to the best of our abilities and look our best. Think about your resume or CV. That’s not a place where you list your quirky flaws, no, that’s where you show off all of your achievements and assets that you will bring to a potential employer. You’re always trying to achieve some level of perfection. A lot of the time when we’re focused on this, we neglect to branch out of our comfort zone and really try new things unless we know that we will succeed at it or be perfect, and if you’re anything like me, this is something that I too struggle with—getting out of my comfort zone even if it means failing. This is a mindset or a way of being that really holds you back. In reality, people feel much closer and connected to those that seem fallible. People who can fail and make mistakes, but do so graciously. Someone who is resilient is remembered as someone that people want to be around and someone who encourages others to try new things even when they fail. And when you encourage people to get out of their comfort zone you make them feel empowered and that is a memorable quality to have. Which brings us to our next point and that is to make people feel special: 2. Make People Feel Special: How you do this is by being curious about their lives, which makes people feel valuable and unique. I find maintaining authentic/ genuine conversation with people is of great difficulty to a lot of people. One of the best ways to build rapport and ensure that the conversation never runs dry is to use the FORD system. This allows you to skim over small talk and get to know people on a deeper level. The FORD system is just an acronym for topic areas to cover when you’re talking to new people. It stands for: family, occupation, recreation, and dreams. These are great topics that are fool proof ones to find out what matters to people. And once you do so, talk about the things and people that matter to them and you will find that you get to know that person with whom you’re speaking on a much deeper level and at a much quicker pace. If you want to learn more ways to be unforgettable, but in a body language context, head over to katespring.com/free and get a copy of my free attraction building handbook. You can get access to your own copy at katespring.com/free. 3. Laugh: Alright, for my third tip on how to be unforgettable, remember to laugh. This is one of the easiest things that you can do to improve your mood and the mood of an interaction, because like moods, laughing too is contagious. 4. Be Proactive: And for our fourth and final tip on how to make yourself an unforgettable man is to be proactive. This is the type of person who is self-motivated, someone who lives the saying, “actions speak louder than words.” One of the defining characteristics of an unforgettable alpha male is his leadership qualities, but not so much in his ability to lead others, but his ability to lead himself.