Channel: Ross Rosenberg

Category: Entertainment

Description: RELEASE of a June 2019 video entitled "Dis-Identify with the 'Voices In Your Head' " but with a new introduction. I am reposting it because of the importance of the material. As I move forward building a conceptual and theoretical framework for my "Codependency Cure" work, I am learning how "Foundational Gaslighting" impacts the future adult gaslighting by a Pathological Narcissist. FOUNDATIONAL GASLIGHTING Foundational Gaslighting is the gaslighting-infused childhood attachment trauma experience that predictably transmigrates into an adult Human Magnet Syndrome compelled relationship with a gaslighting Pathological Narcissist. This “original” gaslighting can be traced back to an SLD’s childhood, to a time when their emotional survival required them to be molded into their narcissistic parent’s “feel-good” or “trophy” object. In this video, I explore how an SLD's / codependent's inner judgmental and critical dialogue is not really their "voice," but from the source of their Foundational Gaslighting. I also explain how and why a person's critical thoughts and judgments about themselves have been implanted or gaslit. When a Self-Love Deficient/SLD (codependent) person thinks and feels negatively, derogatorily and judgmentally about themselves, they naturally believe this "self-talk" comes from their broken or damaged selves. This is not the case. Instead, they are telling themselves and having feelings that were instilled in their mind when they were very young and vulnerable. When a child is a recipient of attachment trauma because of their narcissistic (and codependent) parent, they learn they are inherently "not good enough," "flawed," and always "wrong" or "mistaken." Over time, the child accommodates to such traumatic treatment. Believing in the truth of their parents treatment of them, they begin to say the same things to themselves. Eventually, they identify (internalize) with the messages, and perpetrate them via thoughts and feelings onto themselves. therefore, Ross explains how, as recovering SLD's seeking the "Codependency Cure" or Self-Love Abundance, have to "dis-identify the "voices in their head" or self-talk as coming from themselves, but from an early gaslighting source. Ross is a globally renowned psychotherapist, educator, and expert witness, who is known for breakthrough contributions in the field of mental health, addictions, and especially, codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), Pathological Narcissism, Narcissistic Abuse, and Trauma Treatment. He is a keynote speaker, educator, and professional trainer who has crossed the globe giving his one-of-a-kind presentations. Ross has been regularly featured on national TV and radio. Ross's "Human Magnet Syndrome” books have sold over 130,000 copies and are published in ten languages. His YouTube channel has amassed 20 million video views and 225K subscribers. Ross is the CEO and primary contributor of The Self-Love Recovery Institute (SLRI), where his educational, inspirational work can be found. SelfLoveRecovery.com. For more information or for questions about SLRI and Ross, contact us help@SelfLoveRecovery.com Find Ross on Facebook (facebook.com/TheCodependencyCure ) Instagram (rossrosenberg_slri) and Twitter (RossRosenberg1). #narcissism #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #SelfLoveRecovery #codependency #selflove #therapy #rossrosenberg #mentalhealth #codependencyrecovery #gaslighting